Twas a tale told to me by a friend, but a player chose to take a genetic disorder (in this case kelinfelter’s) to create a sex crazed ‘hermaphrodite’. (spoiler: The person is still genetically male). It’s not sexy. It’s not cool. It’s a genetic disorder that is not something anyone would want to live with. Taking it and fetishising it is rather insulting to those who might suffer from it, and to claim that ‘there is nothing wrong’ with such a character is a disservice to RPers in any community.
If you want a kink that is all well and fine, but taking a real thing people suffer from, fetishising it, and saying none of the negative things that come with matter… Please.
Think before you kink.